Making Treatment Decisions
Receiving the news that you’ve been diagnosed with cancer is a difficult and stressful event that leads to numerous questions and concerns. It may take a number of days before you can begin to think clearly about this information. The inclination may be to follow whatever the person delivering the news tells you. This may or may not be the best option for you. You have time to think through your diagnosis and what type of treatment fits you. People who have been through the diagnosis of prostate cancer tell us the best way to get through it is to seek out support and don’t rush into a treatment you may not be comfortable with. There are many resources at Siteman that can help you explore your options.
Getting the Information to Make a Decision:
- Write down your questions and biggest fears and bring them with you when you visit your doctor.
- If there is something you do not understand, don’t be afraid to ask questions. Keep asking until you understand the answer. Otherwise, you can’t make the best possible choice for yourself.
- Bring a friend or family member when you visit your doctor. Because you will have a lot on your mind, a friend can help you remember what was said. Your friend also can take notes and remind you of questions to ask. Some people also find it helpful to tape record the session with the doctor’s permission.
- Find other people who have had the same condition and talk to them about what was important to them about their treatment. Also realize that because we are all different, their outcome may not be your outcome for the same treatment.
- Don’t be afraid to get a second opinion. You may be at Siteman for a second opinion because the physicians here lead in their fields. Without a second opinion you won’t know options you may have. One doctor may recommend less or more treatment than you think you need. Get as many opinions as you need to feel comfortable about your decision. You don’t have to decide immediately.
- Learn what you can about your cancer, but don’t over study it. Just research the parts you need to know now to make a decision. It will help you ask the right questions. When researching your cancer and treatment information on the Siteman website, make sure you have the right name and subtype of your cancer. Otherwise, you may be unnecessarily alarmed. Also, keep in mind that tumors that used to be deadly may now be much more manageable or curable.
Decisions to Make About Your Treatment:
At any given time, Siteman Cancer Center has more than 350 clinical trials in progress. Prostate cancer patients who come to Siteman have access to novel or more advanced treatments than you could get in a community hospital. If your doctor feels a clinical trial is appropriate, he or she may suggest it. You can review the clinical trials currently in progress or ask your treatment team about appropriate trials available to you.